Saturday, January 23, 2010

She Was Saying Goodbye...

The following is a true personal experience:

In 1977, it was confirmed that my great Aunt Lydie was suffering from lung cancer. The prognosis was not good and the doctors stated that she had very little time to live despite the fact that her illness didn't slow her down. After a stint in the hospital, she returned home and continued her normal routine.

Lydie was my mother's aunt, my grandfather's sister and would always open her home and kitchen to the family. The fact is that she practically raised my mother since my grandparents both worked. Her and my uncle owned a well-kept home in the south central Pennsylvania countryside that was surrounded by cornfields and woodlands. When I was a boy, I would take long hikes along the dirt roads as well as hunt for squirrel and deer in their woods. When I'd return to the house, my aunt would have a big hug and food on the table. I was very close to my Aunt Lydie.

I had been married to my first wife about a year and was living outside of Baltimore, MD. My mother also lived in Maryland but about 15 miles from me. The family kept daily contact with Lydie and we all continued to visit her to make sure the house was maintained even though we lived an hour away. Lydie seemed resilient and didn't let her illness get her down.

One late night, my wife and I were in bed asleep when 'something' woke me. I rolled on my back, opened my eyes and noticed that the room seemed to be illuminated somehow. By that time, my wife had also awaken and was wondering aloud as to why the room had lightened.

We sat up and looked around the room in amazement. I was just about to get out of bed to check on my baby daughter when suddenly, a white billowy apparition started to materialize by the foot of the bed. The form was about 5 feet in height and continued to take a distinct form. Little by little, the spectre developed into the likeness of my Aunt Lydie.

As I looked at the apparition's face, I could see the mouth and eyes moving. It looked directly at me as it seemed like it was trying to tell me something. Both arms started to raise as if it wanted to hug me...the same way my Aunt Lydie would do when I'd walk through her kitchen door. My wife was motionless, shocked and scared out of her mind! She jumped out of bed and ran into my daughter's bedroom, slamming the door behind her. By this time, the apparition started to dissipate and was completely gone after a few seconds.

I sat on the bed utterly astonished. Honestly, this wasn't the first ghost or phantom I had seen but it definitely was the most unforgettable. Then it struck me...my Aunt Lydie was dead.

I looked at the alarm clock which read 2:33am. Just then, the telephone on the nightstand started to ring. I picked up the receiver and it was my mother calling.

"Lon...don't get upset. But, did you see Lydie?" I acknowledge to her that I had. She continued, "Well, Mom (my grandmother) called me and said Lydie had come to say goodbye to her and Daddy (my grandfather)."

Well, by this time, I was totally freaked out. The fact that we all lived in separate locations many miles apart and that the spectre of my Aunt Lydie had visited us at the same time was mind boggling...at least to this, then, 20 year old.

In the morning we were told that my aunt had been rushed to the hospital a little after 2:00am and had died in the emergency room at 2:27am after suffering a massive stroke.

That night is emblazoned in my mind and I'm grateful Aunt Lydie had the opportunity to say goodbye.




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2 Comments:

Blogger Darlynne said...

That is truly a beautiful story.

Here is a brief overview of just a couple of my experiences with "dear departed" family members.

(For a "faux"-tograph of the scene of the orb by the McDonald's sign in Baton Rouge, please visit the Phantoms and Monsters Wiki website, and the "faux"-tography page.) My mother died in the flood waters of August 29, 2005 in New Orleans.

On September 1, 2005, I had gone away from the shelter where I had found refuge in Baton Rouge, to see if I could get breakfast at a nearby McDonald's. You can only eat so much catered food and then you have had enough.

That is when a giant orb, in which was an image from a photograph of both my parents, came down out of the sky from the west. My father did the talking. "You have plenty ahead of you. We have confidence that you will make it." Then the orb drifted back to the west and disappeared.

I too have had many encounters with the dear departed. My two hound dogs, that also died in the floods, told me "Thank you for letting us share our lives with you. Thank you for sharing your life with us."

Then there was the war of words between my grand-aunt, Aunt Nanan and her daughter's boyfriend Harold (both of them deceased for decades) in the room in which my cousin Norma (Nanan's only surviving daughter) had just died. Aunt Nanan was warning Harold that he should not try to date Norma again. Harold told her, "Norma is out of your reach now. She can do anything she wants."

Visitations by the dear departed have a long history in my family. I will let it go at that.

8:08 PM  
Blogger m4ever said...

Wow. One of the best doppelganger events I've ever heard about. Thanks for sharing Lon.

Rick

6:40 PM  

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